It’s sad and unfortunate and not fare – almost always.
But – very often – it’s not beyond retrieve. It’s NOT irreparable, NOT irredeemable.
#All you need is love# – the ‘Beatles’ sing. Well… definitely, not ONLY love but also faith and hope are necessary.
And – sure thing – money matters a lots.
But above all: WISDOM. Of the people and of the powers that be.